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However, one problem, I don't really like him. smirk


Treat it like a business lunch. You don't have to like your client / customer / boss -- you just have to do business with him to mutual benefit.

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Going tomorrow night. But more and more realizing that while H finds it cute to flirt and hang around...I am getting closer to either ultimatum or filing. I have to figure out what is the most practical path to take (H has recently been paying for everything without fuss).

I'm in a good place, just can't really do the high school games with two kiddos in the middle.

Thinking about discussing Retrouvaille after a stretch of R talk free days...

At this point I would need to be convinced that a healthy M between us is possible...



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And/or be convinced that it is not impossible?

Which, ironically to me, given that it is stated in the negative, is probably the more optimistic approach...

And would make you two-for-two on open-minded and ambivalent... wink

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And/or be convinced that it is not impossible?

Which, ironically to me, given that it is stated in the negative, is probably the more optimistic approach...

And would make you two-for-two on open-minded and ambivalent... wink


You're too smart for me. grin I just posted on your thread.

Oh, and I'm not very optimistic. Remember, I'm already D...


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And/or be convinced that it is not impossible?

Which, ironically to me, given that it is stated in the negative, is probably the more optimistic approach...

And would make you two-for-two on open-minded and ambivalent... wink


You're too smart for me. grin I just posted on your thread.

Oh, and I'm not very optimistic. Remember, I'm already D...



LOL. I wish... I think there are very few guys that would fit in that category...


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Well, h texted at 6am that he was just going to sleep and may be a wreck today and "we'll see"...but, the show he went to was great last night!

So, I have a lot of responses but none are too "loving". I'm really revolted.

Just to be clear, shows don't end at 6am.

And the "we'll see" is clearly in reference to our plans.

I'm thinking "I'll make other plans." and nothing more.



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This s*cks.

I am losing faith in him and maybe that is just what he wants.



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What do you make of this?



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Sorry you're hanging here, AK.

If you had a daughter, how would you respond to her?

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LOL. You're the first person I thought of.

Well, this is illuminating as to why I was unhappy being married to him. I guess that is the deal, he does whatever he wants.

I guess I should tell him that we can go back to the original plan of him being with the kids and I'll make other plans. (not thrilled with having the night covered just so he can have a night off, I got it covered so we could go out)...



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