We know what we want and are stubborn to give up the fight.
I like it that Mach1 said we should move forward rather than put it as move on.
Moving forward we can leave the door open a crack.
Moving on sounds more like closing and nailing it shut.
Our H's are confused in their wants. It would be healthier for us to cope with this madness by living well and looking forward. Today let's do for us without regard to what they would say or want us to do. They aren't here, right?
I am pondering applying for a second job so I can be busier. It's at our local school district as a facilities secretary 20 hours a week. I am going to do just that. I don't care what H thinks about the idea. I would rather go back to my company, right now that is not an option. H isn't making any steps towards that either. I have a plan......taking action right now.....here I go.....
What are you going to do?
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11