There are some good books about divorce and raising a child. I have one, I think it's called "Good Parenting through your Divorce" something like that.

Just keep detaching. You need to focus less on him and more on yourself sweetie. You seem "stuck". That's a hard place to be. I read your posts and it seems like you have a lot of time of your hands and that means more time to think about the sitch and all its BS. Find stuff to keep you busy so you can place your focus elsewhere.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him