K - We can all relate to that HOPEFUL feeling. That is why we are SUPPOSED to be DETACHED. NOT listening to what our WAS's say and only 50% of what they DO is SO IMPORTANT. Following that logic. Tell me what ACTIONS has she done???
- She invited you over to the house because you AC was NOT working. POSITIVE. - She laid with you in bed and played with daughter. POSITIVE - She filed for D. NEGATIVE - SHe is sleeping with OM NEGATIVE - She has been very mean and controling NEGATIVE.
The list can go on and on.
All I can say is that I would love for these gestures to mean something. But based on the last 6 mons of interaction I think you both are a long way off from being together again.
Here's a concept. How bout YOU be the stronger one. YOU set the BOUNDARIES. YOU show that YOU DONT NEED her that YOU WANT her and you guys to be a family. That SHE deserves to be treated with LOVE and RESPECT as UNCONDITIONAL as you are ABLE to right now. Show her that YOU are going to be HAPPY REGARDLESS if YOU are TOGETHER. If these gestures are the START of something then you are in a GREAT POSITION to DO things RIGHT this time. Take the Wheel Kevin. Be her champion if she lets you. LEAD your family. I think im definitely jumping the gun here but this is the mindset and MOTIVATION you should have towards her or your LIFE in general.
Keep on doing what your doing if it seems to be working. Now is not the time to STOP but kick it into the next gear and BUILD a new better M/Family if it leads to this. But the BIGGEST thing you need to WORK on is DO ALL THIS with the midset that YOU DONT NEED it BUT YOU WANT IT. Because God will take care of you either way.
