when you were going through your sitch with Greek, did you find yourself jotting down all the "positive" interactions you had with her and try to do more of the same? I'm finding out I'm doing alot of that now.
yes, but don't overdo it. Then find new ways to have positive interactions and redefine positive interactions. It might start at any interaction, then she spewed all over me and anger is good ( ), then her body language shows me she is relaxing, then she reached out to touch my arm ............ I wrote down a quote from here from "ishterehope" 9/1/08 that said:
"the people who had success kept a PMA and saw the good in the situation."
I took that to heart and was vigilant about homing in on my goal. Doesn't mean I didn't screw up or got off track. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
), then her body language shows me she is relaxing, then she reached out to touch my arm ............ 
