K - Just saw your last post. For someone in a different situation as you I would say that last post sounds great. Knowing you and your sitch I just see the word "DANGER!!!" flashing in big red letters in my head.

Why because if it was "dcsquared" that posted that interaction I would say wow that sounds great. keep doing what works. Because I know, from what Ive SEEN. that he would play it cool and look at the big picture and keep on detaching. Unlike you he would not necessary "GO ALL IN" (I know you can relate to poker wink ) with this "new" hand and end up setting him self up for the big fall. I'm afraid that you have way too EXPECTATIONS right now and if your WAW pull's back like she will most likely YOU will get more upset and FALL hard again and say something else YOU will REGRET. Please DONT be that PREDICTABLE to ALL of us who have stayed with you here and just take this as a nice moment and leave it at that. DONT read into this. Remember SHE is still seeing at least one OM and has been very clear with you. Hopefully she is having a change of heart, but I doubt it at this point. I hope I am wrong. But if I am then your C is even more critical so you can fix what broke in the first place. If she is feeling different then she has a lot of things to work on as well.
Not to mention, the "head games" she is playing on your daughters. It really pisses me off to have this stuff taken so lightly. You NEED to SET BOUNDARIES and stick to them. If not for your M for your girls.

Good Luck. PMA