Yes, my H did admit to me that it is in fact him, I only thought it was 100% my fault the 1st month or so. He realized his unhappiness is within him, and that being in love is something you have to work at after being together for 13 yrs.
We had a long talk the day we decided to do Mort's program, when we did MC, we didn't have a good one, she caused us to seperate b/c things got worse when we began seeing her. She wanted to see us individually and focus on childhood hurts, when it wasn't the right time for that.
When we had our discussion and he decided he's willing to give us 1 last try before he files for D, and we did come to the conclusion that we have lost US. We became great parents, but lost our relationship in the process. We are now working on us, he's enthusiastic about doing Mort, which helps me to feel better b/c we both dreaded MC day.
We had date night last Friday, it was fun, but not romantic. BUT I see changes in him, me and us daily. Yesterday he was Very playful, and touchy feely with me in public! So there are huge changes happening. It's my fault for not posting for 2 months, to have a journal of the progress we have made.
He's working on him, I'm working on me, and we get together and work on us. Our 2 DD's are going to be visiting with my mother the majority of the summer, out of state, so it will be a little easier to have date nights, and work on the Mort program b/c we can give each other our undivided attention.
The Mort program has a lot of great pointers and steps to take when piecing, so it's exciting, but also nerve wracking. Sometimes things happen that years ago, when we were dating, would give me buttterflies in my stomach, but now they confuse the Heck out of me. LOL....I'm sure you guys can understand.
Be back later, going to look at other posts. Have a great day!!
Thanks for all of the help.
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug
