the ow in my ugly situation has been seeing him for just about 3 years - however, for a good year and half of that, she thought i was totally out of the picture, from what i hear, she thought we were either legally separated or already divorced.
so really, its been about 14 months that she has known more about me, spoken to me and started questioning everything.
i do believe that without her in the picture, he would show up at my door.
does not make it ok, does not make it right.
and honestly, maybe i wouldnt even want him at that point.
but i do know i want her to leave him, i want that fake relationship over.
i have gone through so much with this, like many of you.
but after planning and opening this business, losing our money and my parent's money, the business closing, and him lying his way back to her as his escape, its just not fair.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09