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Journaling.......

So no word about the job interview yet... which is good it think. You see my company in its great wisdom deleted this job and gave the person doing it a "package" meaning that they laid him off. THEN they found out that they needed someone to do the job. So instead of telling the guy if he wants to stay and give up his "package" he could the opened up the job for interviews. Now the guy that was already doing the job applied also and you would think it would be a given that he got the job but.........taking two days now to decide means I do have a chance.. Anyway it was the easiest interview I ever did because I was really relaxed. I mean I would like the job but on the other hand I would not mind a little time off. If I do get the job I will still have to worry about getting laid off later..

Anyway I was feeling all stressed yesterday after work so I went out and split about a cord and a half of firewood. When I got home I really did not feel like talking to anyone and just went in and took a shower. I was going to go straight to bed but decided to go sit with wife and watch a movie (lord of the rings) with her. She was happy to see me and tried to say some things to make me feel better. She then told me that she was kind of lost in the movie because son distracted her on most of the first part so I explained some things to her.( I have seen the movie several times) and she was happy to listen to me.
I think that sometimes WE cause our own misery, I mean if I would have went to bed like I was thinking then the wife and I would not have had that pleasant interaction.
Well tomorrow I am going to my second going away luncheon and hopefully I will find out if I got the job or not..

Later
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Good luck on the job, Doc.

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Yep, Good Luck Doc smile


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Thanks ladies

No word yet.... Well Son came home with Braces (teeth) yesterday and wife was all over him like a mother hen..

Another $6,000.00 out the door..
Strange comment from wife yesterday though.. She said "I guess if you do get that job I will need to go out and get a job also".. I guess she meant that if I get this job I will not be getting that lay off "package" (6 months payout)..
I said "even if I do get the job you still need to find a job also"..She said "I guess so"....

I DID NOT SAY THIS BUT.... I was thinking.. I guess I don't have a roommate... she is a nanny...
Not bringing in money
No Sex..........
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Just had my "exit interview". Had to sign papers that I would not disclose any "company secrets".
I told him that I have not heard back about my interview and he said signing these changes nothing I am still "employed" until June 30th and he is not going to turn in my papers until then.
(After June 30th I can not apply for a job with the company until 6 months have passed)


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Doc,
They are not going to try to hire you back after the 6 months for less money are they?
That seems to be a common practice where I live right now.

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I did not get the job......

BEFORE ANYBODY says "I'm Sorry" don't worry... I am OK with it.
My Ex supervisor said if anything changes he would hire me back and the "hiring supervisor" also said she would hire me back .."As a temp" if I was interested....

Well the weather is great... Going to be spending allot of time with my son... Fishing, The Zoo, museums....


I dont know where Im going
But, I sure know where Ive been
Hanging on the promises
In songs of yesterday
An Ive made up my mind,
I aint wasting no more time
But, here I go again
Here I go again

Tho I keep searching for an answer,
I never seem to find what Im looking for
Oh lord, I pray
You give me strength to carry on,
cos I know what it means
To walk along the lonely street of dreams

An here I go again on my own
Goin down the only road Ive ever known,
Like a hobo* I was born to walk alone
An Ive made up my mind
I aint wasting no more time

Im just another heart in need of rescue,
Waiting on loves sweet charity
An Im gonna hold on
For the rest of my days,
cos I know what it means
To walk along the lonely street of dreams

An here I go again on my own
Goin down the only road Ive ever known,
Like a hobo* I was born to walk alone
An Ive made up my mind
I aint wasting no more time

But, here I go again,
Here I go again,
Here I go again,
Here I go...

An Ive made up my mind,
I aint wasting no more time



Later
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Doc,

Great luck on your sabatical so to speak.
Remember, when one door closes a better one opens!
I feel that it will for you.

JAK


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Enjoy yourself Doc and make some memories with your son! smile


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Enjoy the break -- they don't come along often enough...

Don't expect sex from someone who you don't treat as your lover...


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