You push, I'll pull.

[Kelly23]

As much as he will never admit it, I think my husband's fear of getting older and not being attractive is what set him off on this path. His first affair started when a 23 year old at work walked by him and told him he was looking good. He is so insecure, that comment gave him the big head and he started seeing her.
I have been getting more and more frustrated at mine for his lack of pride in our home. I thought we wanted the same things out of life but I guess I was wrong.