She also didn't bring up the D or it being dismissed either. All in all I'd say things are doing ok at the moment. They are actually doing better than I ever thought to be honest. Interesting that she thinks I am getting a life and is glad to see that.
Kevin
Why did you accept the offer to stay over??? You asked us yesterday what to do if it happened and We ALL said in answer TO YOUR question about this, "NOT SOON"! We made NO impact on you. Why ask us??
Then You said, "Beats spending money on a hotel"...no Kevin, it does not. You had a perfect opportunity to spend some money wisely, man up and take care of yourself. She made sure she had the power of HER kindness and your gratitude again but without giving you what you wanted....making sure you know where you really stand, as in, "the div is so NOT important to her that it slipped her mind BUT HEY, she does NOT want you to expect anything from her" blah blah blah...
You might have made sure this time in one fell swoop, that she knows you can and will make it with or without her...nope, you didn't. You couldn't say "no" for ONE night...sighs
Amazing opportunity thrown in your lap...and tossed away.
J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
