Hi Jenn, welcome to the other side of the curtain.
Not sure if I covered it much in the other forum, but even after it's all signed, said and done, it's not over. It may be easier for you as it seems there are no kids involved. But I will say, the ride isn't over, yet.
Absolutley, once it's done, go and have fun, afterall you honored your end of the vows, they just failed to mention, until death do you part meant until the death of the ability to uphold those vows. That said, by all means, go have fun, just be careful, as I'm sure you'll hear time and time again.
Thank you!! I am so very thankful that there were no kids involved. I am sad for the loss of the marriage, and I can only imagine how many bumps ill continue to have with my healing...but I am at a good place right now. I know god will take care of me and it just means he has something bigger and better out there for me too..