Originally Posted By: fightingirish

How is it going with the letters? When do you have to go back to court/mediation with her?


I've already gotten one letter from a good friend and co-worker. She knows how much a dote on my two boys, and since she has a teenage son with Asperger's she has been a mentor of mine in dealing with S8.

I've also gotten a agreement from S8's den leader in cub scouts. But I'm still awaiting his statement.

As for our former neighbors, I am getting concerned. I think xW has been back to the neighborhood shoring up her story. It might be getting a little too confusing for some of our contacts. I would guess this all must seem like the weeks leading up to November elections, with two parents campaigning for the votes of mutual acquaintances. Funny and sad, but true.

The mediation session is on Thursday. I'm taking the day off -- so far it looks like all of my vacation time and all of my money is going to be sucked into this black hole of a custody battle.



Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

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