What's it really all about?

[AlexEN]

Oh, I think it can be CONVEYED, but I don't think they're in a frame of mind to RECEIVE it that way.

If you're looking for an "ideal script," that they can read years later and see what a wonderful guy you were/are and how you fought the good fight, then yeah. But just don't expect them to "get it" now.

Puppy

The real "get it" now idea I most want to convey is that, IMO, to effectively co-parent, we need to communicate better and re-build some trust (or we will hurt them) "on their face" and for NO other reason...

Maybe she "gets it" in 20 years, maybe she doesn't, but in the meanwhile, per above, if it works for me, the "fluff" is what it is...