New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Carlos,

I work out a lot in the gym. Good therapy to let go of all the steam and frustration. I also became really good friends with my neighbors across the street. They have become a great source of support and comfort. A year ago, I would not have hung out with them or with anybody else (PTSD from Iraq...). But after my W and kids left, I just HAD to spread my wings and open up. My neighbors have now become very close friends. Big 180 for me indeed. And I LOVE it.

I also picked up the guitar as a hobby. It's very calming. I finally adopted a dog from the humane society. He is one big puppy and a great companion. It really helps with the loneliness.

One thing I never did was to take off my wedding ring, like a lot of people on this BB seem to do. I have never removed it even after my W left. This is how strong I believe that we'll be reunited someday. A constant reminder to be patient and loving no matter how hard it gets...

THANKS for checking in Carlos.

JR09