Stilly & Ash,

Thanks for checkin'.
For now, I'm just kinda off the grid and regrouping a bit, but okay. Really.

Wait a minute. W just walked in front door and called out "Hello!" (how weird is this?).

Well, she came to give DIL something upstairs. Talked with DIL, S, and a bit with me.
If every interaction is a chance to show W the improved me, I'm afraid I blew it. Wasn't expecting her at all and I was not really in a mood for it. I was pleasant, though. Just detached. Apparently, she has removed her wedding band. Not that I care; I removed mine several weeks back. Just an observation.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac