I haven't found posts on your sitch just yet, but I was struck by this post and also by your signature. I too dated my H for 7 years and we've been married for 14. We have S7 and S11, so I feel a connection to your sitch from those similarities. I'm sorry you're going through this and I can certainly sympathize with you. Detachment has been so hard for me. Very brave of you for getting what you said out without crying. I've not yet mastered that. Hang in there!
Take care, IL
Me 39 H 38 T22/M15 S11 S7 EA Confirmed 3/11/09 Sep Weekdays Only 4/09
