trapt, i have had him back, 2 separate times, most recently last month, he had come home and opened a business with me for a fresh start.

he went back to her, the business is now closed and he is unemployed.

but yes, it is no picnic when they actually come back.

it was thrilling to say the least, but after a few days, it was weird. mostly weird because he hadnt allowed time between being with her and being with me.

he needs to end it with her and be on his own for alittle bit in order to return to our marriage the right way.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09