A very busy day for me with all kinds of GALing. So OF COURSE, H calls today and leaves a message - "I'm coming to town to finish packing up my office. I'll be on the road for a few more hours. I'd like to talk with you to see where we're at, call me".

Where we're at?? Quite a change from his last hysterical call. What about an email response to my last email? What about calling me, oh I don't know, IN ADVANCE, so we could have possibly made plans for today?

I didn't change my day and I didn't return the call. He never called back.

So I'm stuck with having to return his call now? - he won't answer anyway at OW's. Or, send an email - Sorry to have missed you. Busy day. How about letting me know a day ahead next time so we can plan a meeting.

Something like that?


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10