total quarter life mlc

[Sanderika]

I wish the OW in my case would blow...up (explode) you know Ka-Boooom!!!! I know she is in this for the long haul. She isn't going anywhere until H forces her to leave. Even then she won't go down w/o a fight.

You at least have some sense that the OW is getting very tired of this charade and is getting ready to push off. IMO this would be the best for everyone, especially H.

Who's to say you can't pack up H's things and move them with you where you go? Nothing says you can't do that. If H isn't fully ready to end the M then don't create the appearance that you want him out.

You have a lot of years of connection ahead of you. Your little boy is 5. Your H seems to be a better Dad than my H. Mine pretty much only qualifies as his father. A Dad is someone completely different. My H needs a huge lesson on being a Dad. I feel so sorry for my son. I would not have had him if I thought his life would be this way. I love him more than life itself and everyday it breaks my heart.

You are right a lot can happen in two months. Let's wait and see what transpires.

I am very lonely tonight, I sent son with FIL for a few days. Son loves to be with him. FIL pays him extra special attention. Today he took him out on the ocean in his boat and they caught a huge striped bass. I think they set him free after the catch which would make my son happy.

I am going to go upstairs and read. I always go to bed early when son isn't here. I can't stand the quiet.

More (((((hugs))))) to you, have a good night. We'll chat tomorrow.

Sanderika