Alex- I thought the letter was beautiful and a perfect length for those of us obsessed with DB and marriage conversations. For a WAS, too long IMO.
My approach would/will be more about having a clear conscience that we did everything we could so that we can both move on with clarity and mutual respect.
I don't know if co-parenting is the issue...perhaps.
My current experience is that I am not so convinced that H and I can have the kind of M I want and I would like to propose we walk into Retrovaille as partners in our openness and ambivalence...I truly feel that I can relate to him now and I would like to emphasize that. I would like to create that bridge between us because it is genuine.
Sorry, I haven't composed mine or I would share it. Working on it.
