I think in my H case, he set out prove to that he's still got it.

He's mid 50's, and somewhat over weight.
He has a high profile position in the town where we live.
I think that's what skank see's, since he used to be her boss.
Not to mention his money ( she recently got D ), his home, and his toys. Plus she cried on his shoulder through her D. He was ripe, he was weak, he fell. (sigh).

MJ