Newbie (again)

[mishka422]

Definitely time to get out on your own.

My xh has never, ever lived on his own. He went from his parents, to my family home (after his dad kicked him out) to our various married homes, and straight to ow. Do whatever you have to in order to get into your own place so your kids have their own place to come to.

Your financial impacts will really last until your kids are completely self-sustaining. Even then, they could still come with their hands out. My poor mom is literally poor because I have had to borrow so much from her that I can't pay back.

You're doing well. Keep it up!