It's not you, Lucky. It's just that I've been at this for SO long, and it's like when you have hiccups, and you get 5,650 home remedies on how to get rid of them, and everyone swears THEIRS will work.
No, it's not just her. But it STARTS in her. Then I react poorly, get pissy/pouty/withdrawn, and pull further away, and the cycle repeats. And . . .
