Like JJ, I don't really have much to say except that I agree that sometimes things have to get bad before they can get better.
I'm not sure if I'm reading JJ's post correctly, but:
Quote: My only thoughts on this is that sometimes, you have to make things worse before they get better.
Implies that you've been trying too hard.
If you're like me, you couldn't bring yourself to "make" things harder, even if you thought it would work.
But FWIW, it doesn't sound to me like OM is ready to dump his W (or he wouldn’t' be sneaking around behind her back). If that’s true, their R is doomed.
And you're making things harder for CAW just by being you. You’re a great guy KAW, and in itself, that puts the pressure on CAW to prove differently. Frankly, I think it must make it pretty uncomfortable for CAW trying to make you out to be the bad guy.
This level of pressure won’t make anything change fast. Can you and should you turn up the heat? I truly don’t know.
Just take care of yourself, my friend. Make sure there’s something left of KAW when this drama plays itself out.
