What's it really all about?

[Kalni]

Dear W,
AFter what has happened I feel it is time for me to show you my love with actions although you know I dont agree with your decision. So, I let you go. I accept and respect your need to end this M the same way I have recognised and accepted my role to what has happened.

I think we both are on the same boat (see, squeezed in that kayak story ) regarding our kid's best interests to maintain a healthy-frendly relationship. I will do my best and trust you will do the same.

Closing paragraph of yoru choice... LOL!!!

Short simple and bittersweet. I know you are too emotional to take all emotion out. But that is the way I would say it (in Greek).

I didnt write to him that. But I DID I tell him and asked for the divorce. I even said, "we can be friends and I can see you sleeping here on the couch in a few months, maybe not now, but someday we will both be comfortable with that". It was Easter 2008 after I had found a call to OW that really hurt. My calmness and matter of fact attitude, did shake him back then... (it took him another 8 months to respond).
K