I don't think it's a dealbreaker for me. In my mind it is a way to accelerate the process. She will realize at some point, sooner or later, that she needs to do work on herself, just like I did work on me, to make herself happy. I think MC will make her realize this sooner. She realizes that she could use/needs help, said that the MC really helps her deal with things, but is not making any initiatives to go.
Got an email from the MC today saying that she hadn't heard anything and that she hopes we can find room in our schedules to come again since she felt it was helping... I was wondering about forwarding it to her, but I am getting tired of pushing that....
She broke her pinky toe on Sat by walking into a concrete block, kicking it with her foot. She was distracted by someone that started talking from a car (thought it was to her but it was to someone else). We were going to go do something for father's day all together (her idea) but she couldn't barely walk, so she said she would take the twins so that stepS (13 yr old) and I could do something together. We went to see Star Trek in an IMAX theater and it was cool!! I was joking where are the barf bags before it started and I almost needed one!! Got pretty nauseous looking at a screen that big! Later that night we swapped kids and she had the twins make me a painting each and wrap it. The paintings were cute! Then she gave me some power bars she said would be good to eat before running, some ice tea she really liked, some loose tea she wanted me to have and give a try. I went back home with a goody BOX! I really just don't understand why she does that kind of stuff?? Does she feel bad about our sitch? I just don't get it... I guess what I do get is that there's no logic to that at all....
