So, you guys are just doing the roommate thing and waiting for divine intervention? Or, are you just staying together for the kids until they are older? Or, are you just not sure yet?

What will happen when some random guy tells her she's beautiful and amazing? What will happen when some random girl tells you how hot and amazing you are? Is there any of that kind of general attention, admiration, and interest shown? Who doesn't want that?

I know that when I feel lonely and unwanted, if H is engaged on the computer I want to dump it in the trash can. I love when we wake up and linger in bed just to have a few moments of tenderness together (not necessarily sex.) You can't make that little stuff happen?

I don't mean to step in from left field here. I haven't kept up with your very long journey. I am curious as to your hopes, your plan (if there is one,) and whether you have found peace.

Lucky