I have to remark that in alot of other cases, the WAS is clueless about their impact on the kids.

In YOUR case, however, your W knows. It's just that all the years of putting up with your problems had taken its toll where she doesn't want to deal with you. Period.

Have you looked over that list again that she detailed? Have you done anything to address those things? How has C been?

Doesn't sound like much change going on.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER