Gee and here I thought all you got a toaster oven or something boring like that...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
One problem in my SSM is that my H is rarely home. He commutes far and works long hours, so the baby and I are alone most of the week. When he comes home late, he is so tired and spent and ML is rarely an option for him.
From what I've gathered from your posts to others... You are still suffering in a SSM and you work from home. Working from home explains why you are on the computer so much, but sometimes I wonder when I see very late and very early posts if you are missing opportunities to shut off the computer and go spend "quality time" with your W.
I don't know your W's schedule, so perhaps you are home alone too, which would explain why you are on here so much. If your W is home in another room... turn this dang thing off and go make out before it's too late!
Sorry if I'm all wrong. It's been bothering me for a little while and I felt the urge to campaign for intimacy and romance among the Puppies.
My wife has made it pretty clear over the years that intimacy isn't important to her, and I won't beg and I'm tired of pursuing. She doesn't even wear her wedding ring anymore because she says "I don't want to get people's (her parents and our kids, mostly) hopes up that everything's fine," because she feels like we've been so on-again/off-again (and we have).
We have lived basically platonically for the past 20 years, which some short bursts of passion interspersed here and there. But nothing that's lasted.
She doesn't like morning sex ("I need to shower!") and she doesn't like nighttime sex ("too tired"), and tons of other excuses. I finally just decided to get on with my own life, because being with her just opens up my heart again anyway, which will make parting that much more difficult if we don't make it.
