Well hopefully he won't remember that. He doesn't listen well all the time. I'm not so sure he's not trying to figure out his own escape. He keeps lamenting about the fact that there's no money for him to move out. That he thinks space is good it gives people time to figure things out for themself.

So am I on target otherwise do you think? I think if I show consistent behavior changes and new confident me that has to say volumes to him. Granted I know with his MLC mind - the marriage has never been any good, I'm the problem, etc. I have to face the fact that he's probably not extremely mentally stable at this point. I'll need to roll with the punches.

After reading my last several posts - anything else you recommend I do differently or start doing that I'm not doing?

Last edited by M25; 06/23/09 07:22 PM.