Wow.. theres alot of available ladies online in your neck of the woods hey! Another date?? I'm mightily impressed with your attitude over it all, just a way to get out and practice your chatting skills and try a new restaurant..
Have you had any contact with W at all? Do you know if she is attempting to date anyone (male or female, I thikn you once said you werent convinced of her orientation !!)
Hugs to you Jeff, you the man, um, as they say in America (?)
xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I guess there must be a lot of available ladies here, if they'll scrape the bottom of the barrel and go out with me! It's been fun so far!
S19 and I finished installing the microwave at W's house Sunday afternoon, and then we sent to dinner for Father's Day. I would be really surprised if she is attempting to date anyone. That type of companionship doesn't seem to be important to her. Though I could be wrong. And I could hardly complain about it. And it's none of my business. (Which isn't to say I wouldn't be curious!)
The woman I am seeing tomorrow is completely excited about it! It's like we were 17 or something. I dont' think she is going to tell me I eat too slow.
Sounds fabulous!!!!! There are certainly a lot of single women out there in the desert. I wonder about the men....maybe I need to move.....
Funny thing is that Atlanta was ranked by GQ as the #1 city for singles. HA! I guess that would be for 20 something, hot bodied, hip singles. I don't fit that mold! You would fit right in though Jeff (well, except in chronological age - but it's really all about how you feel isn't it?)
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
It is good to hear you are getting out on some dates. I bet that sure gives you something to look forward too, but there is always a bit of nervousness with each new meeting.
I believe that the separated status on Match may turn off a lot of prospects. The ladies I dated were hesitant at first. Keep in mind that once you are divorced that there may be more ladies willing to contact you.
I will most likely be back on Match in a few months. I just dont feel the current lady I have been seeing on a steady basis for the last 9 months is going to develop into a LTR. The spark is not there for me and there are problems with her daughter and my kids. I hope that I can break it off without too much emotional damage to her.
One book I can highly recommend (I need to reread it) is John Gray's "Venus and Mars on a Date".
(((((Mishka))))) I don't feel 20, either! And I have a feeling I don't want the same things they want.
Kerry, thanks for the book recommedation. I'm sure that the separated status stops a lot of people. The woman I am seeing tomorrow had contacted me, and then realized that, and almost stopped right there. I had to utilize all of my charm... Actually, I just told the truth, and let her decide. I think it actually impressed her.
It's been fun so far!