Hi Jenn, welcome to the other side of the curtain.
Not sure if I covered it much in the other forum, but even after it's all signed, said and done, it's not over. It may be easier for you as it seems there are no kids involved. But I will say, the ride isn't over, yet.
Absolutley, once it's done, go and have fun, afterall you honored your end of the vows, they just failed to mention, until death do you part meant until the death of the ability to uphold those vows. That said, by all means, go have fun, just be careful, as I'm sure you'll hear time and time again.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11