Wow, thanks. That is a way of looking at it that I hadn't thought of. I have been going nuts trying to figure out why this happened. However, I think our problems started before this EA (still not convinced of PA) and that she turned to him when things got bad between us. May I ask, what is your story now? are you together with your wife? Thanks again for responding
Yes, I am, but we are still having our SSM problems. I did, however, bust her affair very quickly (within two months), and she later THANKED me for fighting for her, and for our marriage and our family, and said she respected everything that I had done (multiple exposures, etc.).
