i am truly sorry to hear these events unfold like this. i hate it inside my heart when the kids hurt, no matter how old they are. but it says something to me the relationship you have with your daughter that she can come to you with what is horrible news and share it with you
you have done a remarkable job in raising your daughter, you should be proud
these things take time, but the question is, when caw is done taking the time she needs to figure herself out, will you be wanting her?