I can't get to her phone, no. She keeps it on her person at all times. Maybe while she is sleeping and it is recharging,
Do you know if she LOCKS it?
My wife carefully guarded her cellphone too. Cheaters always do. So I had to get creative. She'd been sleeping upstairs, in our daughter's old bedroom, on the floor in a sleeping bag. I started to pay attention to her daily routine, and I noticed that every morning, she would get up earlier than I did, leave her phone plugged in and charging (and unlocked), and come downstairs and go outside to get the newspaper, all without coming into our bedroom, where I was still sleeping in the marital bed and with the door closed. She would then make coffee, and sit down at our kitchen table and read the newspaper, and I'd typically get up about a half hour later.
So my plan was, one morning when I heard her go outside to get the newspaper, to quickly get up out of bed, leave my bedroom and close the door behind me, and run upstairs to the room in which she was sleeping. It was easy -- there was her cellphone, unlocked, with dozens and dozens of the most damning text messages between her and OM that you can imagine.
I forwarded a few of them to myself, deleted the Forwards from her Sent Items, and returned the phone to its charger, and then calmly walked downstairs. When my wife saw me, she turned as white as a ghost and stammered "I-I-I didn't even k-know you were up." I just said "Yep!" all upbeat, and went to go take a shower. When I closed my bedroom door, I could hear her immediately RUN upstairs to her room, where she was no doubt checking her phone to see if anything was amiss.
