Wow, thanks. That is a way of looking at it that I hadn't thought of. I have been going nuts trying to figure out why this happened. However, I think our problems started before this EA (still not convinced of PA) and that she turned to him when things got bad between us. May I ask, what is your story now? are you together with your wife? Thanks again for responding
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.