Wow, thanks.
That is a way of looking at it that I hadn't thought of. I have been going nuts trying to figure out why this happened. However, I think our problems started before this EA (still not convinced of PA) and that she turned to him when things got bad between us. May I ask, what is your story now? are you together with your wife?
Thanks again for responding


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.