I don't know when everyone is going to stop thinking I just make this crap up.
What should you do? I would start by exposing the affair to the other man's wife. She has a right to know, and it may just stop the affair dead in its tracks. Why do burglars avoid homes with burglar alarms? It's not because they couldn't make off with plenty of your stuff before the cops got there. It's that they perceive your house as not being worth the hassle.
