OK, you guys have been beating me over the head about the other guy she has been friends with since high school. I didn't want to believe that there could be anything going on with him. Well, I just looked at the cell phone bill, and for the past few months, there have been around 1600 text messages each month to his cell phone number. Every day of the week, some at around midnight or 1 am. You don't have to beat me anymore. Let's for now assume it is an EA, and not a PA. I still don't believe that is possible for her, although I didn't think this was. Anyway, what now? How do I proceed now? I will confront her on this once I have formulated what I am going to say, and what my reactions should be depending on her answers. I am not looking forward to it, but it must be done. Up until now, I was basing everything on her being mildly screwed up in the head, and that if she fixed that, we could be fixed. Now I don't know what to think except of course that she is done with me. BTW, this guy is also married. I would be interested to know what his wife thinks of these text messages. She continues to go to a therapist. Maybe she still has to work out some stuff. I don't know. I don't know what I am going to do until after I confront her. Thanks again for reading.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
