Where in what I asked you did I ever suggest forcing myself on anyone or "techniquing". I've never even suggested arguing with her...
Your wrath is misplaced. Or you have me mixed up with someone else.
I suggested nothing akin to what you took from the question.
-AlexEN
My apologies then, I interpreted the 'techniquing' part of the above thread in a much different way than you seem to be... by all means, keep doing what's working in your sitch.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.