Sandi's Place

[sandi2]

I wanted to post something personal about my stitch that I've been meaning to mention. Some of you may recall me complaining how my H never talked to me before my EA and how that was a major problem down through the years. Anyway, it may appeared to me that he wasn't trying to make changes in himself the way we discuss things here on the board, but one huge change he has made that has astonished me is he is "TALKING"! He still doesn't talk about "feelings" the way I would like for him to discuss. That is part of who I am, I suppose. I grew up around parents who discussed their feelings and opinions about everything, so naturally, I thought that was what M people did! My H doesn't seem to know "how" to express his emotions about most things. He keeps most of his opinions to himself. So that leaves conversations lacking at times....IMHO. But then, I guess that's just my opinion...lol.

Anyway, the point I wanted to make is the fact he is putting forth a real effort to talk to me at the end of the day when both of us come home from work. He still has his quiet moods and especially if he's not feeling well. Over the years, I've become more so that way myself. I know that is hard for you all to believe, right? (lol)

Just wanted to drop the bit of infro out there since there hasn't been a lot to report in the M department here. But as that old saying goes...."no news is good news".....at my house anyway. I appreciate all of you showing interest in me and especially my health problems. There have been folks who really have been kind over the past and tried to help pass any infro they had on Fibromyalgia. It isn't near the health problem many people have to live with, but it is enough that it has changed my entire life from what it use to be. Thanks for your prayers.

Okay, I will get back to what I like doing......talking on other people's threads......(lol).

Everyone take care and keep those posts coming in!

Sandi