K4D Rising #2

[K4D]

Me and W talked this morning because I asked about D7 after she had such a hard time with D11 leaving for church camp for the week. I have been concerned about D7. Here is how the conversation went...

K4D: How was D7 this morning?

W: She cried a lot for D11 last night. I spent a lot of time with her. We watched a movie, got her mcdonalds, had birthday cake and a sundaie(we're eating healthier all week)
Laid her down next to me
She passed out pretty quickly and slept 10 hours
She was fine this morning
No fits
Gave her $2 for snack
We're going to start excercising together. She's very upset about her weight
She doesn't want to be what she calls "tubby"

K4D: Ah
I think that she has bonded with D11 through this and looks at D11 as her only stability now

W: Maybe
But I think also...
From what I gathered last night
That house still scares her because of the cemetary

K4D: No. Cause she was the same way with me

W: Oh really?

K4D: Yup

W: She wouldn't be in any room without me. Followed me around from room to room, bathroom, etc.

K4D: Yup

W: Ok

K4D: Plus she made a profound comment this weekend in a somber tone

W: What did she say?
K4D: She asked why a divorce and then said it makes hers and D11's lives so much harder in a very somber tone

W: Yes, I understand that

K4D: It really tore me up inside. She has obviously been thinking about it as we know she turns things over in her head before asking

W: Very true

I wasn't going to tell her. But it didn't seem like she was aware of anything going on with D7.

I wanted to see if it was just her at my place while D11 was gone, but no, it was also at W's place. D7 I think really has bonded with D11 because of this.

This may have been a step back, but I felt like she needed to know since I didn't believe she did know.

Kevin