Opt , sorry for not being clear. OM hung up because his W was there with him at the time as she answer the phone and gave it to him.
Cupcake , Yes D18 is our first. After the start of the A, CAW attempt to move into an apartment own by OM in a building next door, but that fell thru. D18 and OM's son are the same age and shared some classes together but hung with different circle of friends. D18 know of mom's A with OM but OM's son apparently didn't know D18 what the daughter of his Dad's OW. She overheard him once talking to his friend's about how he hated his father for what he was doing to his mother and that she had found out about him trying to rent the apartment to one of his girlfriends. She apparently pu the kibosh on the whole thing. Shortly after CAW told me she "broke" it off with OM told her not to contact him for a while because W was going to be in town for a few more days and that coupled with my changes got her thinking she should try at making M work.
Quote: Maybe she just never got it out of her system. Seems like sometimes, they just need to "get out" to really see the reality of the situation.
Ya know Cupcake, that has been one of my biggest fear I have had since. The fact that it was he that broke off contact the first time would come back to haunt me in that she didn't initate the closure on that R ... he did and where it never ran it course to the point where she wanted out.