I still have that vision too. I have to agree with you about my W, irrespective of our R she has no right to upset the children in this way. I have told her verbally and also in writing, but she continues this arguing with the children present.
I am considering asking my L if there is anything I can do.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years