Hi Julia,

I'm not too bad thank you. Our R has gone from bad to worse I'm afraid and the attacks on me still continue. I believe my W is angry because I am back in the marital home and she has lost a fair degree of control.

I had the children over for dinner last Thursday before my W and children went off to Corfu for a week. She had presented me with a bill on Monday of £940 which I said required receipts to back up the various items for the children and shopping.

When I told her on Thursday I would have to deal with it when she got back, she went mad and came over and took the children away. I had given my children their favourite dinner and we were playing in the garden when she arrived. My son was so upset he vomited on the doorstep and my daughter ran past me and went to my W's car. My W wanted to engage in a row, I told her I was not prepared to discuss this bill in the presence of the children. Unfortunately, she pushed her foot against the front door stopping me from closing it.

Eventually, she vented all her frustrations and left. since she has been away I have received texts from her attacking me again, and asking me for my solicitors name and address.

This woman shocks me, as even though she is on holiday, she still seems to want to cause arguments instead enjoying her time with our children.

What do you think?


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years