One thing that keeps amazing me is that at work, etc. I don't think anyone realizes anything is "wrong" with my H. How is it possible for someone who is acting so polar opposite of himself put up such a good act elsewhere for long periods of time? They may notice some subtle things but who knows. I also know from what I have gleaned that his new "friends" are quite a bit younger than him and I also can't help but wonder if they ever sit and think about why this "old" guy would want to hang out with them. It is craziness!