Hey Sandi... Thank you for spending so much time with me.
As far as I can tell, he started changing soon after he bought the Harley. He is a writer and a loner type of guy. Doesn't like crowds, and was content to stay at home watching classic movies. He bought the bike three years ago. We loved taking trips on that bike together. Also built up the Harley wardrobe. Then he started riding the bike more and more by himself. He said he loved the solitude and the open road. I loved riding with him on that bike. Now when I look at that bike it disgusts me. I know skank probably rides with him all the time now. Sometimes when I pull into the garage, I feel like knocking that bike over with my car. But, I wouldn't do that, because after all I'm not in a fog and need to be the bigger person here. If this D were to be busted, we would have to get a new bike. I couldn't stand to be sitting on that seat where she sat.
There has yet to be a D date. I responded in January, and there hasn't been any more action. I'm thinking maybe he doesn't want to give up what I'm entitled to. So he is procrastinating. We are in separate bedrooms, and there has been no physical contact in over a year. Ouch, that hurt to write down! That was probably about the time he started having physical contact with skank. Did I mention that she is fifteen years younger than him, and has been married three times? And one of those marriages, her H cheated on her.
I plan on taking my laptop with me on vacation. So I will be checking in.
Scenerio from last night -
H came home right after work. Then asked me if he could make me anything for dinner. I said no, because I had a big lunch and was just going to have a dessert of some sort. He then made himself a frozen dinner. I was watching a movie in the livingroom and he asked me if I was going to leave it on. I said yes, and he joined me. When he went to bed last night, he even said good night. He hasn't done that in a long time. He even left the door open. He usually closes it. Could this be because he saw me get the suitcases out of the closet the day before?
