If W changes her tune in the next few months or even after D is final then you can revisit if YOU want.
I'd be totally up for that right now but who knows what the future holds...I would be more than willing to stay in limbo if she gave any indication that she thought there was even a small chance but she says there is none, so time for both of us to move on.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."