I will add a bit more to my situation and would like to say that i did buy Divorce Remedy as Ashlee has sugested and started to read it and it made a lot of sense. The trouble is that last Thursday my mood took a nosedive and i wanted to end my life so i took off in the car and because i didnt want anyone to know i had been reading books on how to save my marriage, i ended up throwing it away along with Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.
Hubby is not the sort of person to open up and talk about his feelings to anyone so i know it would be no good trying to get him to speak with someone. He is very much a family man and everybody that knows us is shocked that he has walked away. Our marriage was probably not perfect but we hardly ever argued and he is adament that there isnt anyone else involved.Things were a bit stressful for him, with work, noisy neighbours and me been in hospital, before we split and do wonder if this is a factor even though he says it isnt. Has my depression this time pushed him away too far?
As i dont have the book anymore any advice would be welcome or if anybody has been in a similar situation and can relate to it i would be grateful. Even his mum and dad dont want me to give up on him. I do also wonder if he is going through a mid-life crisis, as he has just turned 40, or if he is also mildly depressed.
