These are things he will SEE, not have you tell him about.
His curiosoty is up, don't kill it......
He's got some things to figure out......let him.
How are YOU doing.....not him or the M......YOU ?
Good advice I just don't want him to think I'm "losing it" and therefore throwing a ton of money away on stuff. (It was VERY REASONABLY PRICED furniture... I'm a bargain shopper.)
I don't want him to think the furniture has anything to do with him.
I am doing well. I have the least amount of anxiety that I've had in years. I am living, "accepting the things I cannot change and changing the things I can". I'm enjoying all of the moments as they come. It's slow, and it's uncomfortable, but I know I have a future I can look forward to with or without H. The changes in me are worth all of this trouble.
I know I have the best parts of him anyway, with me, every day. They wake me up in the night by rolling around in my belly, or they jump up to greet me with "Hi Mommy!" in the morning.
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
I just don't want him to think I'm "losing it" and therefore throwing a ton of money away on stuff. (It was VERY REASONABLY PRICED furniture... I'm a bargain shopper.)
